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Enoch: Don't Waste Your Lockdown

Years ago, when facing surgery for prostate cancer, John Piper wrote an article titled: “Don’t Waste Your Cancer” In this article Piper suggests that a cancer diagnosis is an opportunity to remember God’s truth, and grow to be more like Christ. What Piper says about cancer could also be said about our current, challenging situation.

While conditions differ from state to state, most locations have been under some sort of “safer at home” or “shelter in place” guideline. After weeks of this, most of us can’t wait for the restrictions to end. But as we strain against our current confinement, I worry that we may miss the lessons God wants to teach us during this time. Toward that end, I want to offer five principles to help us avoid wasting our lockdown:

Pay Attention To Your Temptations

The economic and relational stresses we have experienced during this pandemic are profound, and these stresses can highlight the weak points in our spiritual armor. In times like this, many of us turn to substances, sex, and media in order to try and drive away the anxiety and worry we experience. Drug, alcohol, and pornography use have all greatly increased during this time.

Recently, a friend reminded me of the story of King David, in 2 Samuel 11. In this text we read that David stayed home from battle, walked his roof, saw a married woman bathing, and then called her to come have sex with him. David put himself in a vulnerable place, and he fell into sin. While we may not have chosen our current confinement, we are in a vulnerable place like David was.

Metaphorically, we have been forced onto our roofs. We have been pushed into a place of isolation and vulnerability. With these unchosen pressures it might seem like we are destined to fail. But David’s story is not the only story of temptation in Scripture. When Joseph was a slave, he also faced sexual temptation. We read his story in Genesis 39 starting in verse 6b;

“…Now Joseph was handsome in form and appearance. And after a time his master's wife cast her eyes on Joseph and said, “Lie with me.” But he refused and said to his master's wife, “Behold, because of me my master has no concern about anything in the house, and he has put everything that he has in my charge. He is not greater in this house than I am, nor has he kept back anything from me except you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness and sin against God?” 10 And as she spoke to Joseph day after day, he would not listen to her, to lie beside her or to be with her.” - Genesis 39:6b-10

Like David’s temptation, Joseph’s was also close to home. But Joseph didn’t choose his confinement. Joseph’s slavery kept him in a place where he was confronted daily with opportunities to sin. But Joseph’s commitment to God kept him faithful during his confinement. Nearness to temptation does not need to result in failure. We are not destined to fail during our time of lockdown.

Identifying our vulnerabilities is so important if we hope to avoid sin. What vices do you turn to when you are feeling lonely or overwhelmed? What behavior patterns emerge in your life when you feel out of control? Answering these questions can help us avoid wasting our lockdown.

Choose Your News Sources Carefully

Most of us are getting stir-crazy, and for many of us, our suspicion toward the authorities is also growing. In this climate, we may be enticed by voices that are neither wise nor accurate. There are two questions I would encourage you to ask to help determine what news sources deserve your attention during this pandemic.

First; Every Christian would undoubtedly agree that truthfulness is essential, but it is often tempting to disregard this principle. When we dislike an authority figure and we come across a story that paints them in a bad light, we are inclined to believe what that story says. But we shouldn’t let fear and distrust drive us to believe convenient lies. I have recently seen an increase in false stories and conspiracy theories spreading in Christian circles. This concerns me deeply. Those who follow the Way the Truth and the Life mustn’t have causal attitude about what is true. We should seek to verify reports, and only share accurate stories.

Second, we should also consider; How is consuming this report affecting me emotionally? In our free market economy, many news outlets exaggerate and incite fear so they can maintain our attention. Christians shouldn’t be ignorant about what is going on in our world. But in this time, we should probably be spending less time on social media and avoid watching news outlets that whip us up into an emotional frenzy. Let’s focus on being faithful today, in our jobs (if we are working), to our families, and most of all to our God. And let’s not let discernment be a casualty of the coronavirus.

Consider How You Are Using Your Time

Lockdown has not meant slowdown for some of us. Even though we are spending more time at home, some of us have been working extra hours. Parents of young children also know that kids are more than able to consume any “extra” time you might have. But many of us do have more discretionary time right now. We should carefully consider how we use that time.

If we don’t plan how we will use our time, we will probably end up defaulting to unproductive activities, like watching Netflix. I have already watched too much TV during this lockdown, but when this is over, I want to be able to say something better than I watched a lot of TV during the pandemic of 2020. We could read books we have been wanting to read (I would be happy to offer suggestions!). We can tackle projects we have been putting off around the home. But we probably won’t use our time well unless we plan how to use it well.

This is also a prime opportunity to think about how you want to spend your time differently when all this is over. Covid-19 has taken a lot of things from us, and some of those we may want to leave behind. We can ask right now: Did I really need to be a part of that club, do that weekly activity, or play golf as much as I was doing before (I know I am meddling here) We can recalibrate and reprioritize, this situation has given us a unique opportunity to push the reset button on our “normal lives”, “l not waste it!”

Invest In People

Lockdown presents us with incredible opportunities to invest in the relationships God has given us. This is true for those we are living with and those we can’t physically be with right now.

Parents and grandparents can invest in their kids and grandkids. Aunts and uncles can invest in their nieces and nephews. Your family members are likely more available for connection right now than they have been in a very long time - even if you don’t live with them. Kids are not going to school now. If you can’t see them in person, give them a call. I have enjoyed hearing how many of you parents are taking regular walks with your sons and daughters. You can make beautiful memories with them by giving them your love and attention.

Perhaps you are a parent who has wanted to lead your family in devotions but couldn’t figure out how to make it work with all your kid’s schedules. Be bold and give it shot. Sing with and pray with your kids. Read Scripture with them. Build a time of family worship into your schedule now.

Many people in our church don’t have kids in their homes. If this is you, ask yourself, who are some old friends you could connect with? Who could you reach out to, encourage and pray with? I know many of us dislike talking on the phone, but if we can get over that barrier, there are incredible opportunities for relational connection.

It encourages me so much when I hear that some small groups are meeting more often right now during the lockdown. By the way, if you are not in a small group right now, Donna and I would love to help make this happen!  This is a great time to join a group. Just email me and let me know.

Be Honest With Yourself

If you are anything like me, you are probably feeling off balance and out of sync right now. Our lockdown presents us with some incredible opportunities, but our emotional resources are lower than normal. On some days, it is a challenge for me to get the essential things done, let alone do anything extra.

Left to myself, I will waste my lockdown. But we serve a God who has promised us that his power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Cor 12:9). He has also given us brothers and sisters, at this church, to come alongside us when we need help. We can accomplish together what we never could do alone. Let’s call each other often to check in and pray.  Let’s fight the isolation with tenacious community. Only when we commit our weakness to God and commit to each other in community, will we use our lockdown well. 

Cassie: Haiti

During my time in Haiti, I saw in a new, somewhat unexpected light what it means to walk with the Lord and with His people. There are so many stories I could choose to relate, but I have chosen to share one that is close to my heart, although it is simple in nature. God often speaks through the simple—through the mundane, the ordinary, or the seemingly insignificant. He speaks in the beauty, and in the brokenness, and in all the in-betweens.

It was our third full day of being in Haiti, and we loaded up in the van to head to a place called Cite Soleil—the most impoverished place in the Western Hemisphere. It would be difficult for me to describe to you in full the brokenness we witnessed in this place. There was trash everywhere—you could hardly see the ground. We stepped out from the van and made our way across the street to a little school, where we were going to hold a VBS for the students there. We worshipped—singing and dancing and smiling with these kids, acting out Bible stories and making crafts.

I ended up towards the back of the school room, where I sat down on a long bench next to some girls who were around 13 years old. One of the girls—Rosalinda—and I taught each other how to count in our languages. I struggled with the Creole, but she caught on to my English right away. She was so patient with me, and we had so much fun as we attempted to communicate with each other, using the few common words we knew. She somehow got a hold of a marker, and motioned to my arm, asking to draw on it. I held it out to her, and she began to write. I looked down at what she had done, and tears came to my eyes when I saw that she had written “I love you Cassie”. Right in that moment, on a bench in a small schoolroom, in a city filled with garbage and brokenness and unimaginable inequity and lack of physical shalom, I couldn’t imagine myself being anywhere else. Being there, with these girls sitting close to me on all sides, as we taught each other language and as they wrote love on my arms—I saw the face of God. I saw His beauty in what was broken. I saw His radiant, perfect, inextinguishable light in the darkness.

In Haiti, the Lord showed me that loving His people doesn’t always mean having the perfect words, the right skillset, or the best plan. Our calling and our purpose is to be the hands and feet of Christ, right where we are. On that day in Cite Soleil, I didn’t have anything special to bring to the table. All I brought was a desire to let these kids know how loved they are—by me, by our team, and by our Heavenly Father. Walking with His people means letting go of our urge to “do” more and focus on “being”—and listening for the whispers of the Lord in the everyday.

This is a story that communicated the power of the Gospel to me in Haiti. We often overcomplicate the Gospel, tainting it with our own expectations and experiences, and, quite frankly, missing it because we’re expecting God to speak with a megaphone. And while he sometimes does choose to speak through mountain-top experiences, I have found that his whispers are always there—in a smile shared between two strangers, in the beauty of a sunny day, or hidden in a corner of a schoolroom in Haiti. 

After the VBS, our team had the humbling opportunity to walk through Cite Soleil and pray over Haiti. We prayed that we wouldn’t forget what we had seen that day, and that our hearts would continue to be broken for what breaks the Lord’s heart. It is the most comforting and beautiful thought to realize that one day, all that is wrong will be made right again. All this brokenness will be made beautiful. And our job, as agents and vessels for the Lord, is to love. To learn and to listen. To pray without ceasing. And to walk with His people—our brothers and sisters—children of God.